Young people reveal the struggles of lock-down and how they coped.

The COVID-19 lock-down upturned the lives of teenagers at a time when they are usually becoming more independent and taking steps toward their future. Instead, they were confined to their homes, exams were cancelled, and their next steps looked suddenly less certain.

Our research on the TELL Study – Teenagers’ Experiences of Life in Lock-down – explored how 109 UK-based 16 to 19-year-old coped under corona-virus restrictions, with an emphasis on their well-being.

Our findings show that lock-down was an intense, challenging experience, raising feelings of loss and fear about the future. However, participants also described considerable effort to adapt, actively working to counter the negative personal impact of the lock-down and trying to think positively.

Coping with stress

Our participants described feeling overwhelmed and trapped, fearful about COVID-19, missing people that they couldn’t see face to face, and feeling uncertain about the future. Many teenagers found that milestones they had worked towards for years, such as exams, were suddenly gone. “When it was announced that GCSEs were cancelled, I was distraught,” one participant told us.

They also expressed some mistrust and frustration with the government and media in lock-down. Some felt that the government was being vague about restrictions and easing the lock-down too soon, and this was making them feel anxious generally but also worried about the return to education.

Participants in the study reported often assessing the impact that the lock-down was having on them, and then proactively finding self-care and coping strategies to specifically counteract these negatives.

This included finding ways to distract themselves and escape, in order to avoid negative thoughts, and finding ways to relax, to counter difficult feelings and stress – such as engaging in hobbies, exercising, and spending time with (or virtually with) loved ones.

Our participants generally described working to ensure their coping strategies were in line with restrictions, although this sometimes caused conflict when household members disagreed about what was allowed and what was not.

For instance, one participant explained: “[Some days I’ll] go for a walk with a friend. However, [I] come back to face confrontation with my brother as he believes that to be unsafe.”

Staying positive

Teenagers told us they were attempting to stay optimistic. Many identified positive opportunities in lock-down, such as time to learn new skills and deepen relationships with their families. Some used lock-down to evaluate their lives, identifying things they appreciated and things they’d like to change.

They also worked on creating routine and goals, as their days had lost structure and purpose, and being kind to themselves – with recognition that the situation was inherently stressful.

One teenager told us:

Of course, self-care isn’t always easy. Some participants felt less able to look after themselves, and others described strategies they thought were problematic, like smoking or suppressing their feelings.

Participants often expressed gratitude for their circumstances, noting they were lucky to have resources such as access to outdoor spaces or positive relationships in their household:

I am very grateful for the position I am in, I generally get along well with my family and, with mum and dad working from home, we have been able to stay safe.

Hope for the future seemed important. Participants focused on what life would be like after lock-down and the things they would do. However, some were growing less hopeful about the pandemic ending soon, and felt disheartened:

I know it can be hard during such worrying times to be optimistic or hopeful but I think that it is really important that we remind each other that this is only temporary and that the best thing to do is just keep going forward.

Supporting teenagers

Our findings highlight the capacity for adaptation among our teenagers, offering a clear demonstration of resilience in the face of the pandemic.

On the one hand, this adaptation shows we must not underestimate the resourcefulness of teenagers. Supporting their emotional well-being at this time should include recognising and celebrating this, encouraging teenagers to reflect and feel empowered by their adaptation to the pandemic.

However, we cannot shift ultimate responsibility for their well-being onto teenagers themselves. Resilience depends on wider systems, such as family life, education, recreation, and healthcare. COVID-19 has brought disruption in many ways to many of these systems.

Teenagers need to be given the tools they need to actively cope and should be supported when they are struggling. This can include having opportunities to reflect on and discuss how they are feeling, seeing those around them make use of healthy coping responses, and having time and space to relax and care for their own needs.

It will be extremely important to provide hope for the future for teenagers as the pandemic continues to unfold. Without a sense of promise for a future they can look forward to, adaptation and optimism may well become increasingly difficult.

Source: theconversation
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